Colombian women are lively, friendly, and sexy. In other words, they are fun to go out with!
Likewise, Colombian girls appreciate a man who is as fun to spend time with and fully embraces his confidence and masculine virtues.
One of the best ways to make spending time together more fun and display your confidence is to ask questions. There are also specific questions that you should ask a Colombian girl on your first date to help determine if she’s the right woman for you or not.
So, what are some questions to ask a girl in Colombia on your first date?
See You At 8?
One of the first questions to ask a Colombian girl should be asked before the date even begins.
Remember – Colombian girls, like all Latinas run on ‘Latina Standard Time.’
They are likely to show up thirty minutes to an hour late to just about anything.
It’s always a good idea to confirm the date time a few hours beforehand so she won’t forget.
What Do You Do for a Living?
Perhaps the most straightforward question to begin the conversation at a date is to ask what she does for a living.
You don’t have to spend too much time on this question if you want to take things more personal and romantic, but it’s still a great way to break the ice and get the conversation started.
What Are Some of Your Goals in Life?
After you’ve discussed what the two of you do for work, it should be very easy to ask her about her major life goals.
Specifically, you can ask if she’s passionate about what she does, why or why not, and what some of her life aspirations are.
What Do You Like to Do in Your Free Time?
Questions such as “what do you do for work” and “what are some of your life goals” are certainly reasonable questions to ask on a date, but these are also more professional inquiries.
Once you’re ready to start taking the conversation in a more personal direction, you can ask her what she likes to do in her free time. This question also keeps the conversation focused on her, which is good because she’ll appreciate you showing your interest.
What Is Your Family Like?
Latin Americans are very traditional and family-oriented people, and dating a Colombian woman will be no exception.
Asking her this question communicates that you care about her, and she will likely spend a good amount of time telling you about her parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles, and siblings.
What Are Your Friends Like?
Her friends will matter to her just as much as her family, and she will likely spend a lot of time telling you about them and the fun experiences they have shared.
Of course, she’s likely to only tell you about her female friends at first. But once you’ve asked her this, it can serve as a good transition for you to then ask the following question.
How Many Boyfriends Have You Had?
That is a question you should only ask once the conversation has become more personal. You shouldn’t make the mistake of asking this too early in the conversation, because otherwise, it can be a bit too inappropriate.
It’s a good idea to talk about her family and friends first before inquiring about her romantic life.
Take note that to take a date in a more sexual or romantic direction, men will often specifically ask about the number of flings or sexual partners a girl has had.
However, asking her this can come off a bit too strong on a first date, so stick to the term ‘boyfriends’ instead. You should only inquire about her past sex life until after you’ve had sex.
But if you want to take the conversation in a more romantic direction on your first date, you can instead ask the following.
How Am I Doing?
Don’t be afraid to ask a Colombian girl how you are doing on your date. Colombian women like men who are confident and asking her this question displays your gutsy side because most men are honestly too nervous to ask it.
You can find here more questions to break the ice while online dating.
Remember that this date is not just about her; it’s about you too. Just don’t ask this question too arrogantly, and you’ll be golden.
If anything, she’ll likely smile and chuckle after you ask her this, and this will take the date in a more lighthearted and romantic direction.